By Marla Martenson After more than two decades as a high‑end matchmaker, I’ve noticed a pattern that quietly sabotages even the most successful men. It’s not a lack of confidence. It’s not a lack of ambition. And it’s certainly not a lack of options. It’s unrealistic expectations around beauty . Many of the men who come to me are accomplished—leaders in their fields, financially secure, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely ready for partnership. And yet, when it comes to wh